Do You Belong in the Church? … (Of Course! But Here’s Why)… (Matthew 13:47-53)

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Fishing nets are designed to scoop up everything in their path. They do not discriminate.

Naturally, when such a net is hauled into a boat, it contains all sorts of things: flapping fish, muddy twigs, and debris.

It’s up to the fisherman to decide what he wants to keep and what he doesn’t.

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In the Gospel, Jesus likens the Church to a fishing net. 

We’re meant to cast ourselves far and wide, gathering as many people as possible into the nets of the Church. 

It’s not up to us to decide who does or doesn’t belong; that power belongs to Christ. 

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Yet how often are we tempted to play the role of the fisherman? 

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To discriminate; to judge. To decide who’s in and who’s out; who belongs and who doesn’t.

This doesn’t only happen in the Church. 

We can also do this in politics, in our social circles, at work, even in our families. Many of us know a “black sheep,” for example, someone who doesn’t seem to belong.

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Stop judging others, Jesus says. He’ll do that at the end of our lives.

Live the Golden Rule, instead. Welcome other people, just as we ourselves want to be welcomed.

There’s room for all.

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Family Drama and a Way to Resolve It… (A morning meditation, Matthew 12:46-50)

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There’s an old Chinese proverb that says, “Not one family can put a sign outside their home with the words: No Problems Here.”

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Even the Holy Family had their share of drama.

In the Gospel, for example, Jesus is preaching inside someone’s home, when all of a sudden Mary and some other family members appear wanting to speak with him.

They’re not there to ask Jesus if he’s coming home for dinner; they’re looking to scold him! 

As it’s written a few verses before, they think Jesus is, “out of his mind!”

I’m sure some of his family’s concern was driven by the desire to protect him from being harmed. But the truth is, even those closest to Jesus struggled to accept him as the Son of God.

That must have been quite painful for Jesus.

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Not one family – not even the Holy Family – can say, “No problems here.”

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What issues or concerns do I face in my own family?

And how might I work to resolve them? 

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Though only the beginning, perhaps the first step is listening.

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