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Gospel: Luke 11: 5-13
Jesus said to his disciples:
“Suppose one of you has a friend
to whom he goes at midnight and says,
‘Friend, lend me three loaves of bread,
for a friend of mine has arrived at my house from a journey
and I have nothing to offer him,’
and he says in reply from within,
‘Do not bother me; the door has already been locked
and my children and I are already in bed.
I cannot get up to give you anything.’
I tell you, if he does not get up to give him the loaves
because of their friendship,
he will get up to give him whatever he needs
because of his persistence.
“And I tell you, ask and you will receive;
seek and you will find;
knock and the door will be opened to you.
For everyone who asks, receives;
and the one who seeks, finds;
and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.
What father among you would hand his son a snake
when he asks for a fish?
Or hand him a scorpion when he asks for an egg?
If you then, who are wicked,
know how to give good gifts to your children,
how much more will the Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit
to those who ask him?”
The Gospel of the Lord.
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Why do we not always get what we pray for?
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The honest answer is, “I don’t know.”
I think why we get what we pray for is as mysterious why we sometimes don’t. The fact that God listens to us and, at times, answers our prayers exactly as we ask is a marvelous truth in itself.
But there is one thing we always receive in prayer: the Holy Spirit.
As Jesus says in today’s Gospel, “Ask, seek, knock. Then my Father in heaven will give you the gift of the Holy Spirit.”
Saint Paul says the fruits of the Spirit are, “love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.”
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So, what does this mean for us?
Maybe we’ve been praying for a conflict with someone to end. Even if it hasn’t, through prayer, God will give you the patience and self-control you need to bear it.
Maybe a particular temptation continues to pester you. Through prayer, God will give you the grace you need to resist it and remain faithful to the Gospel.
Maybe a malignant diagnosis for you or a loved one won’t turn benign. Through prayer, God will give you the peace needed to accept it. (I can personally testify to this as my mother was dying).
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Place your needs and desires before the Lord today. Perhaps God will answer you exactly as you wish. I certainly hope so.
But if not, be open to receiving the gifts of the Holy Spirit, who helps us to bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, and endure all things.
God’s loving support for us never fails.
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