When our loved ones die… Piecing together an image of heaven. (All Souls Day)

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Gospel: John 6: 37-40

“Jesus said to the crowds:
“Everything that the Father gives me will come to me,
and I will not reject anyone who comes to me,
because I came down from heaven not to do my own will
but the will of the one who sent me.
And this is the will of the one who sent me,
that I should not lose anything of what he gave me,
but that I should raise it on the last day.
For this is the will of my Father,
that everyone who sees the Son and believes in him
may have eternal life,
and I shall raise him on the last day.”

The Gospel of the Lord.

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Grand Canyon Art Print featuring the painting Grand Canyon North Rim Lodge View by Christopher Arndt

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What will heaven be like?

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If only we could ask those who’ve gone before us.

The truth is, we just don’t know. But I’ll share an image with you that comforted my mother during her final days here on earth.

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In college, I travelled to the Grand Canyon with my buddies. When we first arrived at the Northern Rim Trail, I was speechless.

I’d never seen anything so vast, so wide, so colorful. 

But after I adjusted to the breathtaking view, I reached out to put my arms around them.

Although the canyon never changed, somehow seeing it with my friends made it all the more beautiful.

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That, I believe, is what heaven is like.

When we first enter the Kingdom of God, I’m sure we’ll be overwhelmed by its beauty – how vast, how wide, how colorful it is.

But after our eyes adjust, we’ll reach out for our “buddies” – those whom we’ve journeyed with through life – because seeing the same place with our loved ones makes it more complete.

Heaven never changes, but, perhaps, our experience of it does. Every person added makes a unique difference.

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And so, my mother reaches out for me from the “Northern Rim Trail,” as it were. Although she’s safely and peacefully in the presence of God, being there with me will change her experience of it.

Since I’ve not arrived yet, she longs for me – she prays for me – in a way that she simply couldn’t here on earth.

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Imagine this incredible chain of waiting – of loving arms reaching out from heaven. Your loved ones and mine are among the “blessed,” who are waiting for the rest of us to come home.

When the last person shuffles into heaven from earth, that chain will be complete. We’ll join hands and, together, descend into the “canyon” – into the depths of God.

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Often, we dream of heaven being a place filled with Saints – gloriously crowned, bowed in humility, praising God with the angels.

But if you look at the picture up on the screen tonight, you’ll see a familiar, perhaps more accessible, picture. That, to me, represents all people from every place and time.

Grand Canyon Art Print featuring the painting Grand Canyon North Rim Lodge View by Christopher Arndt

I see a father and his two sons. An elderly couple, perhaps married for a half-century. A middle-aged husband, his wife, and their daughter. 

Then I think of the two-hundred people who’ve I’ve commended to the Lord during my priestly ministry: World War Two veterans who fought for peace; a grandmother and her four-year-old granddaughter, a father and his son.

People who were loved deeply, and often enough, left this world too soon. 

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So, who do you see on those benches along the Northern Rim Trail?

“In my Father’s house,” Jesus says, “there are many dwelling places.”

A place for you. A place for me. A place for all those whom we remember this night.

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May they pray for us as we reach out for them – and they reach out for us – that our hearts may be filled with hope and the love of God, which alone can bring us the peace we need.

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So, what will heaven be like?

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I’m not sure. But something tells me, it’ll be even more beautiful than the Grand Canyon. And Mom will be there with Jesus, waiting to welcome me home.

Just as your loved ones will be there waiting for you.

There’s room for us all.

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two persons sitting on a bench overlooking a sea of clouds photo – Free  Grey Image on Unsplash

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Image credits: (1) Farmer’s Almanac (2) Grand Canyon Northern Rim Trail, Christopher Arndt (3) Ibid. (4) Unsplash

What is love? How do we give and receive it?

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Gospel: Mark 12: 28-34

One of the scribes came to Jesus and asked him,
“Which is the first of all the commandments?” 
Jesus replied, “The first is this:
Hear, O Israel!
The Lord our God is Lord alone!
You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart,
with all your soul, 
with all your mind,
and with all your strength.

The second is this:
You shall love your neighbor as yourself.
There is no other commandment greater than these.” 
The scribe said to him, “Well said, teacher.
You are right in saying,
‘He is One and there is no other than he.’
And ‘to love him with all your heart,
with all your understanding,
with all your strength,
and to love your neighbor as yourself’
is worth more than all burnt offerings and sacrifices.”
And when Jesus saw that he answered with understanding,
he said to him,
“You are not far from the kingdom of God.” 
And no one dared to ask him any more questions.

The Gospel of the Lord.

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Skipping to the altar - Deseret News

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Before celebrating a wedding, I always ask the engaged couple: “What is love?”

“If the two of you are preparing to love one another for the rest of your lives, then what is it? How would you define love?”

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Often their reactions are similar. It’s something like, “Sigh…. Umm…That’s a toughie.” Then they turn to each other with that look of, “You first!”

Love is something every human being desires to give and receive, but how do you define it?

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Some brides have said to me, “Love is a feeling of being complete.”

“Love is creating a safe space for each other to learn, to grow, and to make mistakes.”

Meanwhile, many grooms have quoted Owen Wilson in Wedding Crashers, “True love is your soul’s recognition of its counterpoint in another.”

It’s a romantic definition that sounds nice and gets them off of the hook!

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I think the best definition of love comes from William Shakespeare’s famous play, Romeo and Juliet.

One summer evening, as a young Juliet gazes down upon Romeo from her balcony, she says, “Romeo, the more I give to you, the more I seem to have.”

The more I give…the more I have.

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On the surface, Juliet seems to have everything a young girl could want: a healthy family, a palace to live in, and the blue blood of royalty running through her veins.

But without Romeo, she has nothing. 

As Saint Paul says:

“If I speak in human and angelic tongues, but do not have love, I am a resounding gong or a clashing cymbal…If I have all faith so as to move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give away everything I own, but do not have love, I gain nothing.”

It’s a scary truth to accept, but the more we give, the more we have. And, conversely, the less we give of ourselves, the less we have.

This is why, the Gospel tells us today, love is the fulfillment of religion.

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I believe God has written this truth – the more we give, the more we have – into all of creation. Everything in this world is designed to give itself away.

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For example, if you wander behind this church into our backyard, what do you see? 

The sun does not shine on itself; it gives its light away, brightening and warming the earth. 

Trees do not eat their own fruit; they offer it for the nourishment of others. Meanwhile, their branches reach for the heavens while growing leaves, offering others shade from the noonday heat.

Rivers do not drink their own water. Flowers release their fragrance, even after their plucked.

Creation is meant to give itself away.

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Bearing Fruits Painting by Angeles M Pomata

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You and I are no different.

The more we give, the more we have.

So, how do I give myself away? Think about this in the context of marriage, parenting, faith, friendship, or ministry.

How do we offer ourselves to others?

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It’s the newlywed who carries his bride’s Amazon packages up three flights of stairs.

It’s the wife, who after fifty years of marriage, cares for her husband, who can no longer care for himself.

It’s the young mother who shows up at 7 am on a Monday morning to cook Bolognese in the soup kitchen for people she’ll never meet.

It’s the person standing in front of you or behind you, who promised to pray for you at the beginning of this Mass.

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Before celebrating a wedding, I always ask couples one question: “What is love?”

It can be hard to define – and, sometimes, even harder to live. But the more we give ourselves away – in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health – the happier we become.

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Mother Teresa - Ignatian Solidarity Network

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Image credits: (1) What is Love?, Slide Share (2) Deseret News (3) (4) Ignatian Solidarity Network

Seeing beyond the rules of religion.

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Gospel: Luke 14: 1-6

On a sabbath Jesus went to dine
at the home of one of the leading Pharisees,
and the people there were observing him carefully.
In front of him there was a man suffering from dropsy.
Jesus spoke to the scholars of the law and Pharisees in reply, asking,
“Is it lawful to cure on the sabbath or not?”
But they kept silent; so he took the man and,
after he had healed him, dismissed him.
Then he said to them 
“Who among you, if your son or ox falls into a cistern,
would not immediately pull him out on the sabbath day?” 
But they were unable to answer his question.

The Gospel of the Lord.

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A Man With Dropsy Is Healed - Life of Jesus | Christ.org

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Jesus healed people seven different times on the Sabbath. Each time he does, the hearts of the Pharisees are hardened. They’re so focused on following the “letter” of the Law – of performing no work on the Sabbath – that they fail to see the goodness of God at work.

In today’s Gospel, for example, a prominent Pharisee invites Jesus to dine in his home. But this wasn’t an invitation extended out of kindness; it was a trap.

The Pharisee planted another guest at that table who was suffering from dropsy, meaning his chest and stomach were filled with fluids, which often lead to organ failure. This man was sick. Perhaps near death.

The Pharisee puts him near Jesus to see what he will do. The word used here for “watching” Jesus literally meant to, “stare with a sinister eye.” Will Jesus break the Law and cure him on the Sabbath? 

Of course, he will. Jesus was never bound by a strict interpretation of the Law. As he himself says, “I desire mercy, not sacrifice” (Matthew 9:13).

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The Pharisees remind us what happens when religion goes rogue; when strict interpretations of the Law prevent people from receiving grace. 

This Pharisee should’ve rejoiced that the man was healed from dropsy, even if on the Sabbath, but his heart was hardened, instead. How unfortunate.

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So, what’s the point?

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As Catholics, we follow a treasure trove of laws, moral codes, and traditions. These are meant to make us more virtuous, happier people. But we should never let our religion get in the way of God’s mercy.

Rather, we’re called to be kind and merciful to everyone, even to those who do not follow our faith entirely. Who knows, the Lord may still fill their hearts with grace.

And if he does, we should rejoice.

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Christ Healing at Pool of Bethesda Painting by Murillo

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Image credits: (1) Crosswalk.com (2) Christ.org (3) Christ Healing at Pool of Bethesda, Murillo