Don’t Sweat the Small stuff.

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Gospel: Matthew 18: 21-35

Peter approached Jesus and asked him,
“Lord, if my brother sins against me,
how often must I forgive him?
As many as seven times?”
Jesus answered, “I say to you, not seven times but seventy-seven times.
That is why the Kingdom of heaven may be likened to a king
who decided to settle accounts with his servants.
When he began the accounting,
a debtor was brought before him who owed him a huge amount.
Since he had no way of paying it back,
his master ordered him to be sold,
along with his wife, his children, and all his property,
in payment of the debt.
At that, the servant fell down, did him homage, and said,
‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back in full.’
Moved with compassion the master of that servant
let him go and forgave him the loan.
When that servant had left, he found one of his fellow servants
who owed him a much smaller amount.
He seized him and started to choke him, demanding,
‘Pay back what you owe.’
Falling to his knees, his fellow servant begged him,
‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back.’
But he refused.
Instead, he had him put in prison
until he paid back the debt.
Now when his fellow servants saw what had happened,
they were deeply disturbed, and went to their master
and reported the whole affair.
His master summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked servant!
I forgave you your entire debt because you begged me to.
Should you not have had pity on your fellow servant,
as I had pity on you?’
Then in anger his master handed him over to the torturers
until he should pay back the whole debt.
So will my heavenly Father do to you,
unless each of you forgives your brother from your heart.”

The Gospel of the Lord.

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“The kingdom of God may be likened to a king who decided to settle accounts with his servants.”

One owed a huge amount, Jesus says, while the other a small amount.

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Biblical scholars have tried to calculate just how much debt these two servants owed their king. One was estimated to be 10,000-talents, while the other was a mere 100 denarii.

If that first debt were paid in coins, it’d require an army of 8,600 people each carrying a 60-pound sack on their back.

A hundred denarii, on the other hand, could fit inside someone’s pocket.

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So what’s the point?

One man has been forgiven an immense debt, so large it’s almost impossible to imagine.

Yet he turns around and acts petty with his neighbor, demanding his neighbor repay him a few pennies.

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Pettiness.

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So much of the anger that fills our hearts is often over petty stuff. 

We don’t get our way; someone cuts us off on the Parkway; interrupts us mid-sentence; or plays passive-aggressive.

If Jesus forgives all the sins we’ve committed, then the least we can do is forgive our neighbor for making a mild mistake.

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In his eyes, it’s the difference between 8,600 sacks of coins versus a few pennies.

Given the fact that we’re all living with an increased level of stress these days, Jesus reminds us to let the small stuff go.

It’ll reduce our stress – and the stress of everyone around us.

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