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As a priest, I’m humbled every time I hear confessions.
The honesty, maturity, and self-awareness people bring often reminds me of my own weaknesses, and likewise, my desire to repent.
Regardless of what the person’s sins may be, the Lord always says, “I absolve you.”
You’re forgiven.
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Hearing those sacred words should inspire us to say them to others.
“I absolve you. You’re forgiven.”
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In the Gospel, Jesus tells a parable about two men who are in need of forgiveness financially.
One of them has a debt reaching into the millions of dollars. Yet the king says to him, “I absolve you. Your debt is forgiven.”
Shouldn’t this man pay it forward and forgive those who are in debt to him?
Surprisingly, he doesn’t; he sweats the small stuff, strangling his neighbor over a few pennies owed.
Pettiness at its best.
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Like this man in the Gospel, some of the anger that fills our hearts can be over petty stuff.
We have a difference in opinion; someone interrupts us mid-sentence or cuts us off on the road; someone leaves their dishes in the sink overnight.
If the Lord forgives us every time we sin, then shouldn’t we extend that same kindness to others?
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“I absolve you. You’re forgiven.”
Words of mercy that we often need to hear and, in return, should extend to others.
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Forgiveness is key in my life.