Mental Health: Time to talk about it.

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Gospel: Luke 16: 19-31

Jesus said to the Pharisees:
“There was a rich man who dressed in purple garments and fine linen
and dined sumptuously each day.
And lying at his door was a poor man named Lazarus, covered with sores,
who would gladly have eaten his fill of the scraps
that fell from the rich man’s table.
Dogs even used to come and lick his sores.
When the poor man died,
he was carried away by angels to the bosom of Abraham. 
The rich man also died and was buried,
and from the netherworld, where he was in torment,
he raised his eyes and saw Abraham far off
and Lazarus at his side.
And he cried out, ‘Father Abraham, have pity on me. 
Send Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue,
for I am suffering torment in these flames.’
Abraham replied,
‘My child, remember that you received
what was good during your lifetime 
while Lazarus likewise received what was bad;
but now he is comforted here, whereas you are tormented.
Moreover, between us and you a great chasm is established
to prevent anyone from crossing who might wish to go
from our side to yours or from your side to ours.’
He said, ‘Then I beg you, father,
send him to my father’s house, for I have five brothers,
so that he may warn them,
lest they too come to this place of torment.’
But Abraham replied, ‘They have Moses and the prophets.
Let them listen to them.’
He said, ‘Oh no, father Abraham,
but if someone from the dead goes to them, they will repent.’
Then Abraham said, ‘If they will not listen to Moses and the prophets, 
neither will they be persuaded if someone should rise from the dead.'”

The Gospel of the Lord.

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Do you remember the sitcom, Cheers?

It’s hard to believe it’s been nearly 30 years since the show began. I can still imagine Sam, Woody, Carla, Cliff, Norm, and Diane sitting around the bar.

The show just drew you in. There’s something incredibly comforting about sharing your troubles with buddies, perhaps over a pint or two.

It’s why the theme song was so catchy:

“Sometimes you wanna go where everybody knows your name, and they’re always glad you came. You wanna be where you can see the troubles are all the same. You wanna go where everybody knows your name.”

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We’re trying to create that same sense of community here at St. Pius X. It’s why we’re having a series of nametag Sundays over the next few weeks. Sometimes we, too, want to go where everybody knows our name, and they’re always glad we came.

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The parable in today’s Gospel speaks of the rich man and Lazarus. Interestingly, this is the only parable in all of the Gospels where Jesus gives a character a name.

Think of the parable of the Prodigal Son. There’s just the Prodigal Son, his father, and his older brother. No one has a name.

But today Jesus names this poor man covered in sores, “Lazarus,” which means, “God will help.” 

The rich man, however, is nameless, defined only by his wealth. His purple garments symbolize his identity within a royal family. He also has a gate in front of his home, where Lazarus lays desperate for help.

This gate is a sign of the rich man’s security, his privacy, and his insulation from the suffering of others. By separating himself from the poor, he separates himself from God. 

As Jesus teaches us, “Whatever you do to the least of my brothers and sisters, you do to me.”

And whatever we don’t do for them, we don’t do for Christ.

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Jesus doesn’t condemn the rich man for being rich or for doing anything wrong. He condemns him for not doing something right.

He had the opportunity to encounter Christ daily; Lazarus was literally starving just outside of his gate, eager to eat the mere scraps from his table. The rich man had to step over him just to leave his home!

But he never stops to ask, “Lazarus, are you okay? How can I help?”

After he dies, the rich man sees Lazarus resting in heaven, full and content, but he still thinks of Lazarus as being inferior to himself.

From the netherworld, he cries out, “Father Abraham, send Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue.”

Meaning, send Lazarus down from heaven to serve me!

It’s almost comical how blind he is to the suffering and dignity of others, despite the misery he himself now faces.

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On the surface, the Gospel application is clear. Christians should never become blind to or insulated from the physical suffering others. If someone is laying hungry at our feet, then we should help them.

But what about the mental, emotional, or spiritual state of others? How can we be alert to those suffering in silence?

Nobody walks around wearing a t-shirt saying, “Hi, I’m depressed.” Or, “I’m anxious.” Or, “I feel lost inside.”

But studies suggest that one out of every six people will experience depression at some point in their life. That statistic must be even higher emerging from this pandemic.

This is the reason why we’re starting the conversation about mental health here in our parish, to begin addressing our “invisible” needs – the need to belong, to be affirmed, and to say, if it happens, “I’m not okay.”

It’s why we’re having Brandon Marshall, an NFL veteran and mental health advocate, speak at our 10 a.m. Mass today.

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Imagine Sam, Woody, Carla, Cliff, Norm, and Diane sitting around the bar. “Sometimes you wanna go where everybody knows your name and there always glad you came.”

May we become one of those places, where people feel a deep sense of belonging, because that’s where real conversations – and real healing – begins, where everybody knows your name.

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“Who do you say that I am?” Sometimes a hard question to answer.

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Gospel: Luke 9: 18-22

Once when Jesus was praying in solitude,
and the disciples were with him,
he asked them, “Who do the crowds say that I am?”
They said in reply, “John the Baptist; others, Elijah;
still others, ‘One of the ancient prophets has arisen.’”
Then he said to them, “But who do you say that I am?”
Peter said in reply, “The Christ of God.”
He rebuked them and directed them not to tell this to anyone.

He said, “The Son of Man must suffer greatly
and be rejected by the elders, the chief priests, and the scribes,
and be killed and on the third day be raised.”

The Gospel of the Lord.

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The disciples have just returned from their first missionary journey, casting out demons and healing the sick. While sharing what fruit their adventure has yielded, Jesus asks them what people are saying; what’s the gossip going on in town?

He knows his actions and theirs have caused quite the stir – and rightfully so – and so he wonders, “Who do people say that I am?”

Only Peter gets it right. “The Christ of God.”

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Now that they see the big picture – they understand that Jesus is divine – he reveals more about his identity and plans. 

“The Son of Man must suffer greatly and be rejected…and be killed and on the third day be raised.”

Such a serious turn of events would leave anyone confused and stunned. Just when Peter thought he had things figured out, Jesus turns his assumptions upside down. How can Jesus be so powerful – how can he be God! – and still suffer?

Surely, Jesus is mistaken. 

Shortly after this Gospel passage, Peter pulls Jesus aside and rebukes him, which leads to Jesus then calling Peter, “Satan.”

Again, a terribly confusing turn of events.

But this is often what it’s like on the journey of faith. Just when we think we have God figured out, he reveals something else about himself. 

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“So, who do you say that I am?”

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So long as we never lose sight of Christ’s divinity – so long as we keep placing our trust in him – then we’ll never be lost. 

We may be confused at times, but we must trust like Peter that the Lord knows what he’s doing and where he’s leading us: to life in abundance.

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Image credits: (1) St. Andrew’s Presbyterian Church, Cabourg (2) Book of Mormon Central (3) I Love Jesus Christ

King Herod’s soul searching… and our own.

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Gospel: Luke 9: 7-9

Herod the tetrarch heard about all that was happening,
and he was greatly perplexed because some were saying,
“John has been raised from the dead”;
others were saying, “Elijah has appeared”;
still others, “One of the ancient prophets has arisen.”
But Herod said, “John I beheaded.
Who then is this about whom I hear such things?”
And he kept trying to see him.

The Gospel of the Lord.

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The story does not end well for King Herod.

He’s already made a series of horrible choices, including the beheading of John the Baptist, a decision he made while he was drunk.

But we’ve captured Herod at an interesting point in his journey; he’s “perplexed” – haunted – by John. He loved listening to him.

Even after John’s death, the Gospel tells us, “Herod kept trying to see him.” Meaning, he was still intrigued by John’s message of repentance and the coming of the Lord.

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That, to me, represents where so many in our world are at.

Thankfully, few in our world are as deranged as Herod. But many are “perplexed” by the Gospel message; they’re interested, but undecided. 

Faith can seem risky; difficult; life-changing… It is!

Just consider the ramifications that faith would’ve brought into Herod’s life. For starters, he would’ve had to stop living with his brother’s wife and repent for the murder of an innocent man, John the Baptist!

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How has my own life changed as a result of accepting the faith? And how do we encourage others in their own faith journeys?

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May we be emboldened by the life and ministry of John the Baptist, who was never afraid to live the truth and to share it, even at great personal cost.

Your witness just may change a life for the better.

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