“Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself … less.” – CS Lewis

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Gospel: Matthew 23: 1-12

Jesus spoke to the crowds and to his disciples, saying,
“The scribes and the Pharisees
have taken their seat on the chair of Moses. 
Therefore, do and observe all things whatsoever they tell you,
but do not follow their example. 
For they preach but they do not practice. 
They tie up heavy burdens hard to carry
and lay them on people’s shoulders, 
but they will not lift a finger to move them. 
All their works are performed to be seen. 
They widen their phylacteries and lengthen their tassels. 
They love places of honor at banquets, seats of honor in synagogues,
greetings in marketplaces, and the salutation ‘Rabbi.’
As for you, do not be called ‘Rabbi.’
You have but one teacher, and you are all brothers. 
Call no one on earth your father;
you have but one Father in heaven.
Do not be called ‘Master’;
you have but one master, the Christ. 
The greatest among you must be your servant.
Whoever exalts himself will be humbled;
but whoever humbles himself will be exalted.”

The Gospel of the Lord.

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A few years ago, I traveled to Ireland with a friend. While there, we celebrated Mass in his hometown church, a tiny chapel perched on a hill.

Walking in for the first time, I noticed something unusual…  each pew had a name plate on it. Processing down the aisle you could read them all: “O’Callaghan. O’Connor. Murphy. Duffy. Doyle.”

When I asked “why,” he said the pews dated back to when the chapel was built. Each pew was auctioned off as a fundraiser. The last pew went to the highest bidder – and the first pew went to the lowest bidder.

“But why would someone pay to have a back row seat?” I asked him. 

“If you’re in the front, then everyone can see you’re there. If you’re in the back, then no one will see you. Why would someone pay such a steep price for a hidden seat?”

He winked at me and said, “Humility.” 

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In today’s Gospel, Jesus says, “Whoever exalts himself will be humbled; but whoever humbles himself will be exalted.”

What, exactly, is “humility”? 

The word “humility” comes from the Latin, humus, meaning earth.

A humble person is well-grounded; their feet firmly planted, allowing them to stand – neither above nor below – but shoulder to shoulder with their neighbor, regardless of who the person is. Humble people make you feel comfortable in your own skin.

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Perhaps the best applied definition of humility I’ve heard comes from C.S. Lewis, who said, “Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself – less.”

Humility is thinking of yourself… less.

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Consider a few examples.

“Humility” is the mother who makes due with less fashionable clothing so that her children may not be out of style.

She is the best-dressed woman in the kingdom of God.

It’s the father who forgoes a round of golf to attend his child’s sports game. He is better than par as a dad… and a Christian.

It’s the co-worker who concedes a trivial argument to promote peace in the workplace. That person is always right before God.

It’s the athlete who’s learned how to cheer for the winner, even while standing in second place. That person receives a heavenly applause.

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The opposite of humility is pride. Pride leaves us seeing ourselves as taller, or more important than others. 

That is the behavior Jesus condemns in today’s Gospel. The scribes and Pharisees have made religion unattractive and inaccessible to ordinary people because of their egos.

“They widen their phylacteries and lengthen their tassels,” Jesus says.

A phylactery is a leather box that Jewish men wear on their arm and forehead during prayer. Some of the scribes and Pharisees enlarged their phylacteries to draw attention to themselves, making them appear more devout than others.

What matters is not the box itself, but the scriptures rolled inside. Although the scribes and Pharisees physically bore the Word of God on their bodies, it had not penetrated their hearts; being inwardly changed by scripture demands humility.

I’m sure we can all think of people who still wear religion on their sleeve, as it were, without practicing it themselves.

And, equally, we can think of people who’ve been transformed by grace.

Herein lies the difference between the religious leaders whom Jesus condemns in today’s Gospel and authentic Christians. Whereas the religious leaders sought to draw attention to themselves, we seek to magnify the Lord.

As Saint Paul says, “It is no longer I who live, but Christ living in me.”

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Perhaps the back pews in that church perched on a hill were considered “prime real estate” because everyone could see the lead donor’s name upon entering the church. That person might also have gotten away with being physically absent on a Sunday… or two.

It’s the same sin the scribes and Pharisees are committing in the Gospel – pride.

But the Lord reminds them, and us, “everyone who exalts himself will be humbled. But everyone who humbles himself will be exalted.”

So, how might we be humble – thinking more of God and others, and less about ourselves – this week?

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Why Jesus breaks the Sabbath.

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Gospel: Luke 14: 1-6

On a sabbath Jesus went to dine
at the home of one of the leading Pharisees,
and the people there were observing him carefully.
In front of him there was a man suffering from dropsy.
Jesus spoke to the scholars of the law and Pharisees in reply, asking,
“Is it lawful to cure on the sabbath or not?”
But they kept silent; so he took the man and,
after he had healed him, dismissed him.
Then he said to them 
“Who among you, if your son or ox falls into a cistern,
would not immediately pull him out on the sabbath day?” 
But they were unable to answer his question.

The Gospel of the Lord.

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Throughout his ministry, Jesus is set up by the scribes and Pharisees. Often, they try entrapping him with questions like: “Is it lawful to pay the census tax?” Or, “A woman had seven husbands. At the resurrection, whose will she be?”

They hope the Lord’s answer will either make him an enemy of the state, or in the least look foolish. 

Today’s Gospel is similar. But instead of asking the Lord a question, a prominent Pharisee invites Jesus to his home for dinner. He then assigns the Lord a seat next to a man with dropsy. 

Dropsy caused a person’s chest and stomach to fill with fluids, which was not only painful; it also could lead to death.

The Pharisee knows Jesus will be moved with compassion by the sight of this man. The trap is this: will the Lord break the Law and heal him on the Sabbath?

Luke tells us this Pharisee “observed” Jesus carefully – literally meaning, he “stared” at the Lord with a sinister eye. If Jesus breaks the Sabbath, then he’d be considered a Jew gone rogue.

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What is the Lord to do?

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Of course, Jesus heals him. As he says elsewhere, “I desire mercy, not sacrifice.”

This becomes one of seven different times the Lord breaks the Sabbath to heal a person in need.

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So, what might this Gospel passage mean for us?

As Catholics, we’re invited to follow a variety of laws, moral codes, and traditions. For example, we avoid eating meat on Fridays in Lent. 

But the primary rule that should order our lives is charity. Anything we do for the good of another person – whether or not it’s on the “Sabbath” – is pleasing in the eyes of God.

Think of one way you might be a blessing for someone else today. 

And act on it.

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A Meditation on All Souls Day.

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Gospel: John 6: 37-40

Jesus said to the crowds:
“Everything that the Father gives me will come to me,
and I will not reject anyone who comes to me,
because I came down from heaven not to do my own will
but the will of the one who sent me.
And this is the will of the one who sent me,
that I should not lose anything of what he gave me,
but that I should raise it on the last day.
For this is the will of my Father,
that everyone who sees the Son and believes in him
may have eternal life,
and I shall raise him on the last day.”

The Gospel of the Lord.

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We gather together this evening with a common purpose – to remember and to pray for those whom we’ve loved and given back to God.

Our loss is heaven’s gain.

As Jesus says in tonight’s Gospel: “I will not reject anyone who comes to me… For this is the will of my Father, that everyone who sees the Son and believes in him may have eternal life.”

Still, tonight is bittersweet. Bitter because part of us is no longer here; sweet, because the people we’ve loved, and pieces of our own heart, are now in heaven with the Lord – just as Jesus promised.

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For some of us, it’s been a year or more…for others, a handful of days.

But we know the loss of a loved one doesn’t hit us all at once; it comes in stages.

There’s the first Thanksgiving. The first snowfall. The first Christmas. The first phone call when they don’t pick up.

Weeks or months go by, and a letter arrives in the mail with their name on it. Suddenly you pick up their scent in the house – an old t-shirt you find in the closet; their pillow you still snuggle with at night. 

Maybe you hear them walk down the hallway; see an old picture; or remember their grin; their laugh; the warmth of their hugs.

At first these memories bring tears to our eyes – we fall back into days gone by, wishing they were still here. But over time, that sadness can turn into something sweet – a smile, a joyful tear, a prayer of gratitude that we knew, and, yes, were loved by them.

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The road to healing is long and sometimes rocky. 

It requires seeing ourselves differently; imaging a future we never planned; still loving someone who loved us deeply, even though we cannot see or touch them anymore.

It’s a personal road – an intimate road – that no one can walk for us. Yet it’s also a journey that does not have to be walked alone.

“Come to me, all you who labor and are heavy burdened,” Jesus says, “and I will give you rest. For I am meek and humble of heart. My yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

We approach Jesus at this altar – the same altar many of us gathered around to offer our loved ones back to the Lord. We approach him in prayer. We approach him in the silence, when words are not enough.

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We also encounter the Lord in one another.

If you look around the church this evening, you’ll see a community of “all generations” who know what the ache of grief is like – utterly unique, yet common to us all.

Some of you have also discovered our Bereavement Ministry, a place where anyone can go to share their heart, to learn how to cope, and even to find friend who’s “been there.”

After Mass, as you enter the narthex, you will notice some home baked goodies that were prepared by members of our faith community just for you. They’re reminders that you’re thought of; that so many are here to support you.

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My hope is that each person here will experience the peace the Lord offers. 

This was, after all, the first word that Jesus said to his disciples after being raised from the dead: “Peace.” In Hebrew, “shalom.”

“Shalom” means wholeness; harmony; prosperity. It implies that something – even someone – has been broken and then pieced back together. We know what the brokenness is like. Now we ask for the healing.

This is the Lord’s will after all – to piece us back together; to transform our grief into hope; doubt into faith; loss into gratitude.

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Whether it’s the first, or yet another, Thanksgiving, snowfall, and Christmas that comes, when you’re reminded of who is no longer there, remember who always is:

Jesus.

The one whose yoke is easy and whose burden is light. He will comfort us all, filling our hearts with that peace, which he alone can give.

And for our loved ones – grateful that God has saved them – we pray: 

“Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon them. May their soul and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.”

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