The Inseparable Bond between Mother and Child.

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Gospel: Luke 1:39 – 56

Mary set out
and traveled to the hill country in haste
to a town of Judah,
where she entered the house of Zechariah
and greeted Elizabeth.
When Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting,
the infant leaped in her womb,
and Elizabeth, filled with the Holy Spirit,
cried out in a loud voice and said,
“Blessed are you among women,
and blessed is the fruit of your womb.
And how does this happen to me,
that the mother of my Lord should come to me?
For at the moment the sound of your greeting reached my ears,
the infant in my womb leaped for joy.
Blessed are you who believed
that what was spoken to you by the Lord
would be fulfilled.”

And Mary said:
“My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord;
my spirit rejoices in God my Savior
for he has looked with favor on his lowly servant.
From this day all generations will call me blessed:
the Almighty has done great things for me
and holy is his Name.
He has mercy on those who fear him
in every generation.
He has shown the strength of his arm,
and has scattered the proud in their conceit.
He has cast down the mighty from their thrones,
and has lifted up the lowly.
He has filled the hungry with good things,
and the rich he has sent away empty.
He has come to the help of his servant Israel
for he has remembered his promise of mercy,
the promise he made to our fathers,
to Abraham and his children forever.”

Mary remained with her about three months
and then returned to her home.

The Gospel of the Lord.

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While studying for the priesthood, I used to visit a children’s hospital located right next to our seminary. I’ll never forget meeting a 5-year-old girl there named Martina.

You may remember the story. Martina suffered from a very rare condition, causing her to spend almost every day of her life in the hospital.

She had no joints. The bones in her arms and her legs didn’t connect, so she could neither stand nor walk. All she could do was lay in her little hospital bed.

It sounds impossible, but making her life even harder, she was blind, deaf, and mute. 

Martina had never seen her mother nor heard her voice. She only felt her mother’s touch, a gift she experienced every single day.  

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Martina’s mother never left her side, because that’s who mothers are – they bring us into this world, they nurture us, and shower us with love and affection.

Witnessing their bond reminded me of a definition I once heard of love: “Love is a single soul dwelling in two bodies.”

It was as if Martina and her mother were one.

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That’s the type of bond we celebrate today – the inseparable bond between a mother and her child – in particular, the bond between Mary and Jesus.

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Mary was the only person who both welcomed Jesus into this world and was with him when he left it; from the day Jesus opened his eyes in Bethlehem to the moment he closed them on Calvary, Mary was there.

But she not only became the mother of Jesus, but also his disciple.

Some would say, his first disciple. 

Over the course of thirty-three years, Mary’s heart became so united to Christ, they were like, “a single soul dwelling in two bodies.” His will became her will; whatever was pleasing to Jesus was pleasing to Mary.

As she reminds Christians in every age, “Do whatever he tells you.”

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On this Feast of the Assumption, it makes sense that wherever Jesus goes, Mary would follow – not only in this life, but also in the next.

After he rose from the dead and ascended into heaven, we believe that Jesus called his mother home – body and soul. It’s what we celebrate today – our belief that human beings have a place in heaven, our identities and stories intact, starting with Mary.

As Jesus says in John’s Gospel, “Do not let your hearts be troubled, you have faith in God. Have faith also in me. In my Father’s house there are many dwelling places.”

A place for Mary. A place for Martina. A place for you. A place for me.

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This is essentially the message I shared with Martina’s mother the day her daughter died. That bond of love between the two of them was so strong it was as if they were, “a single soul dwelling in two bodies.”

Wherever Martina went, her mother would eventually follow.

But in heaven, Martina’s body will be freed from the cross that bound her here on earth. She’ll be given a glorified body much like Mary, where she’ll be able to walk and run; one day, she’ll see her mother face to face; and she’ll thank her for never leaving her side.

It’s just who mothers are. 

Wherever the child is, surely their mother will follow.

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Image credits: (1) Deposit Photos (2) Mother and Child, Saint Louis Art Museum (3) Mother Child Painting, Kristina Siegel

A Remarkable Story of Courage and Hope.

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Gospel: Matthew 18:21 – 19:1

Peter approached Jesus and asked him,
“Lord, if my brother sins against me,
how often must I forgive him?
As many as seven times?”
Jesus answered, “I say to you, not seven times but seventy-seven times.
That is why the Kingdom of heaven may be likened to a king
who decided to settle accounts with his servants.
When he began the accounting,
a debtor was brought before him who owed him a huge amount.
Since he had no way of paying it back,
his master ordered him to be sold,
along with his wife, his children, and all his property,
in payment of the debt.
At that, the servant fell down, did him homage, and said,
‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back in full.’
Moved with compassion the master of that servant
let him go and forgave him the loan.
When that servant had left, he found one of his fellow servants
who owed him a much smaller amount.
He seized him and started to choke him, demanding,
‘Pay back what you owe.’
Falling to his knees, his fellow servant begged him,
‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back.’
But he refused.
Instead, he had the fellow servant put in prison
until he paid back the debt.
Now when his fellow servants saw what had happened,
they were deeply disturbed,
and went to their master and reported the whole affair.
His master summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked servant!
I forgave you your entire debt because you begged me to.
Should you not have had pity on your fellow servant,
as I had pity on you?’
Then in anger his master handed him over to the torturers
until he should pay back the whole debt.
So will my heavenly Father do to you,
unless each of you forgives his brother from his heart.”

When Jesus finished these words, he left Galilee
and went to the district of Judea across the Jordan.

The Gospel of the Lord.

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There’s an old Swedish proverb, “Those who wish to sing always find a song.”

In good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, those who wish to sing always find a song.

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Today we celebrate the Feast of Saint Maximillian Kolbe, priest and martyr.

Maximillian was one of millions of prisoners sent to Auschwitz, the most infamous death camp in history. 

One day while working in the camp, another prisoner tried escaping. Furious over the attempt, the camp guards selected ten other men to be put to death in his place.

One of the men selected pleaded for mercy, telling the guards that he was a father and a husband.

Then Saint Maximillian stepped forward and said, “I am a Catholic priest. Let me take his place.”

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Maximillian and the other nine men were thrown into a hole, condemned to death by starvation.

Heroically, Maximillian led those men in prayer for nearly two weeks.

Other prisoners personally recounted how their singing could be heard rising out of the ground at all hours of the day, making it sound like a church choir buried in the depths of Auschwitz. The hope was contagious. 

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So, what might Saint Maximillian’s life say to us today?

No matter where we find ourselves – in good times or in bad, in sickness or in health, on a mountaintop or in the belly of the earth – we all have a reason to sing a song.

Jesus has been raised from the dead, and because of him, so will Saint Maximillian, his companions, and all who’ve placed their hope in God. Saint Maximillian Kolbe, pray for us!

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We Need to Talk.

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Gospel: Matthew 18: 15-20

Jesus said to his disciples:
“If your brother sins against you,
go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.
If he listens to you, you have won over your brother.
If he does not listen,
take one or two others along with you,
so that every fact may be established
on the testimony of two or three witnesses.
If he refuses to listen to them, tell the Church.
If he refuses to listen even to the Church,
then treat him as you would a Gentile or a tax collector.
Amen, I say to you,
whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven,
and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.
Again, amen, I say to you, if two of you agree on earth
about anything for which they are to pray,
it shall be granted to them by my heavenly Father.
For where two or three are gathered together in my name,
there am I in the midst of them.”

The Gospel of the Lord.

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Some of us cringe at the idea of conflict. We’d rather hold things in, suck it up and keep the peace, than speak the truth. But the Lord reminds us in today’s Gospel that silence isn’t always possible. 

Sometimes, we need to talk.

“If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone,” Jesus says. 

It’s never a matter of if– but when– crucial conversations need to happen.

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Jesus had several such conversations with Peter.

For example, after giving Peter the keys to the kingdom of heaven, Jesus predicts his crucifixion and death, which Peter protests vehemently. 

Immediately, the Lord pulls Peter aside, and says, “Get behind me, Satan! You are thinking not as God does but as human beings do.” 

A stern rebuke. But Peter humbly accepts his fault and gets back in line. 

Jesus and Peter have another crucial conversation after Peter denies knowing Jesus three times. Once the Lord is raised from the dead, he appears to Peter on the shores of Galilee and asks him simply, “Peter do you love me?”

Jesus doesn’t show up to shame Peter; rather, to be reconciled with him, to remind him of the responsibility he bears, and to send him out on mission.

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Like Peter, sometimes we make mistakes. We say or do things that hurt someone we love. And like Jesus, sometimes we’re the one who needs to speak up for the sake of reconciliation. 

When these crucial conversations happen, remember the promise of the Lord, who assures us, “Wherever two or three are gathered in my name, I am there in the midst of them.”

The Lord comes to bring us reconciliation and peace, even when it means… 

We need to talk.

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