Unlocking the Key to Happiness. A Lenten Meditation. (Mark 12:28-34)

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Jesus is asked in today’s Gospel, which is the greatest of all the commandments?

To which he responds, “Love of God.” And the second is like it: “Love your neighbor.”

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In Jesus’ time, there were two major schools of thought. 

Some Jews wanted to expand the Law as much as possible. They were meticulous and exceptionally detailed; so much so that they created 613 extra rules to follow!

Others treated the Law like an accordion. They wanted to condense it as much as possible, down to its very essence.

It’s this approach that Jesus takes.

Collapsing the Law, he says the entirety of it – and by extension Christianity – can be summarized in a single word: love.

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But what exactly is love?

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Love’s a bit like humility; it’s hard to define. But you know it when you see it. You know it when you feel it. And you know it when you don’t.

Throughout the centuries, poets like Dante have tried to define it with varying degrees of success. For example, he once wrote, “Love is what moves the sun and the other stars.” 

Nice, but a bit too abstract to me. 

Shakespeare, on the other hand, got it right.

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In one of the most famous scenes from Romeo and Juliet, a young Juliet gazes down upon Romeo from her balcony and says to him:

“Romeo, the more I give to you, the more I seem to have.”

That’s the very essence of love; the more we give, the more we have.

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Married couples and parents know this well. Think of how delighted you are when you see your children succeed. 

Or even the excitement teachers experience when they see their students first learning to read.

Or the sense of meaning we find when volunteering to help the most vulnerable among us, especially in a time like this.

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If Juliet is right, the more we give to anyone, the happier we become. 

This is why, Jesus says, love fulfills the Law; it’s the force that moves the sun and the other stars.

During this extended time of self-isolation and social distancing because of the Coronavirus, what an important reminder to us all:

…reach out to others online, pray for the world, thank those who work to keep our grocery shelves stocked, and those who care for the sick.

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It’s a mysterious truth, but one Jesus knew perfectly well, the more we give to one another, the more we seem to have.

Happy Father’s Day! On the Feast of Saint Joseph.

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Happy Father’s Day!

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It’s unfortunate we have to celebrate this holiday under the shadow of self-quarantining and social distancing.

But, ironically enough, some dads may find themselves home today because of the Coronavirus. To all of you, I hope you make the best of an otherwise difficult day.

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Today the Church remembers all dads, but one dad in particular, Saint Joseph, the foster father of Jesus.

We know very little about his life, because scripture only references him in the early life of Jesus. But there’s still enough detail there to paint some picture of what he was like.

Joseph lived in an small village…He was married to a young, peasant girl named Mary… He spent his life as a carpenter, earning his daily bread by the sweat of his brow. 

He knew the twinge of hunger, the pain of aching bones, and the value of a few cents.

He was an ordinary man, much less accomplished than some of us.

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Joseph never went to college. He never wrote a book. He never owned shares in the stock market. He never held public office. 

He didn’t have a blog. He never made the news. He never lived in a major city or even journeyed far from his home.

The only time he left his home country was to flee to Egypt as a refugee because King Herod was trying to kill the infant Jesus. 

And the child wasn’t even his.

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On the surface, Joseph was uneducated; a peasant; a refugee. 

A nobody.

Yet 2,000 years have come and gone and we still celebrate his life. Out of the billions of dads who’ve come and gone, he is one we remember.

Why is that?

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Maybe it’s because we all see something of Joseph in ourselves. 

Like him, we know the value of hard work, the meaning of sacrifice, and the importance of family. 

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Joseph never accrued worldly wealth or status; neither will many of us. But he was faithful in the tasks God entrusted to him.

He worked hard. He loved deeply. He was a faithful husband. And he believed in the Son of God.

That’s what counts in the end.

Being faithful; being humble; and being responsible. Living such a life makes us all blessed in the eyes of Almighty God.

An Attitude Adjustment: Moving Ahead With Lent (Matthew 5:17-19)

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With the rapid spread of the Coronavirus, it’s hard to remember we’re still in the season of Lent.

While some of us may have given up Facebook or chocolate this year, perhaps we’re all trying to cling to our patience, instead.

After all, there may not even be chocolate available to buy!

I’m sure we’ve all seen clips of shoppers standing in line for miles, their carts filled with groceries, toilet paper and hand sanitizer, suspicious of the person behind them. 

Maybe we’ve been one of them.

As the old saying goes, “Patience is a virtue.” While there are so many things about this outbreak that we cannot change, our attitude is one of them.

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We may define the word attitude as an, “inner disposition; the way we think or feel inside.” 

That’s really what our Lenten penance is all about – trying to change our attitude; the way we think about others; the way we feel inside.

In particular, Lent is all about growing in love.

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In the Gospel, Jesus says, “I have not come to abolish, but to fulfill the Law.” 

That’s a tall order. 

By the time Christ walked this earth, the Jews followed more than the 10 commandments. Over the centuries, rabbis tacked on additional rules, leading to a total of 613! 

They must’ve been gluttons for punishment.

But Jesus says that anyone can fulfill these rules – and the Law – with one word, love.

Love your God; love your neighbor. Then you fulfill the Law – and by extension, the regulations of Lent.

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So how much have we grown in love this Lent? Especially with this outbreak of the Coronavirus, have we found ourselves increasingly patient or irritable? Selfish or generous?

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While there are many things we cannot change, our attitude is one of them. Perhaps that should be our focus as we move ahead.