What does it mean to “love your enemies”?

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Gospel: Matthew 5: 38-48

Jesus said to his disciples:
“You have heard that it was said,
An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.
But I say to you, offer no resistance to one who is evil.
When someone strikes you on your right cheek,
turn the other one as well.
If anyone wants to go to law with you over your tunic,
hand over your cloak as well.
Should anyone press you into service for one mile,
go for two miles. 
Give to the one who asks of you,
and do not turn your back on one who wants to borrow.

“You have heard that it was said,
You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.
But I say to you, love your enemies
and pray for those who persecute you,
that you may be children of your heavenly Father,
for he makes his sun rise on the bad and the good,
and causes rain to fall on the just and the unjust.
For if you love those who love you, what recompense will you have?
Do not the tax collectors do the same?
And if you greet your brothers only,
what is unusual about that?
Do not the pagans do the same?
So be perfect, just as your heavenly Father is perfect.”

The Gospel of the Lord.

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If you’ve ever played a video game, then you know there’s always a series of levels. The first level is the easiest and the final level is the hardest. 

It may take multiple attempts, but if you succeed in beating the final level, then you’ve mastered the game.

If Christianity were likened to a video game, then today’s Gospel reveals the final level:

“Love your enemies. Pray for those who persecute you.”

How wonderful in thought… how impossible in action. But if you can do this, then you’ve mastered Christianity.

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This may be the most difficult Gospel to preach on because of its realistic – and often very painful – application to our daily lives.

Think about what’s happened in Syria and Turkey. Building contractors cut corners for years, lowering the standards on building inspections in order to make a little extra profit. Now more than 46,000 people are dead.

Some of those buildings – if built to code – would not have collapsed. While justice is necessary, the Lord also teaches us to love and forgive those contractors who valued profit over human life. 

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But, what exactly does it mean to “love” them? Or to “love” anyone who’s hurt us?

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The Greeks had four different words for “love.”

There’s family love, the type that a parent feels for a child. 

Passionate love, the type that one spouse feels for another.

Affectionate love, the type that one feels for a friend. It’s from this Greek word, philia, that we get the name, Philadelphia, also known as, “the city of brotherly love.”

Then there’s agape, which means, “unconquerable benevolence; invincible goodwill.” It’s the highest form of love, which we share within our community. We are people of good will. 

This is the love that Jesus commands us to have towards others, even our enemies. 

It is not the sacrificial love that a parent has for a child; not the warm and fuzzy love that one spouse has for another; not the affectionate love we’d have for our closest friend. 

It’s an unrelenting commitment to the well-being of others. Even when it hurts, we want what is best for them.

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In the context of our “enemies,” agape love seeks rehabilitation, instead of revenge; healing, instead of punishment. 

Think of someone who’s living with an alcoholic spouse. Agape love prays for that person –for healing, sobriety, and restoration so that the relationship can continue. You cannot hate someone whom you pray for because prayer is an act of the heart.

Agape love leads us to patiently collaborate with hostile or angry co-workers, instead of further isolating them. It inspires us to befriend someone with opposing views or a different faith from our own.

It leads us to do whatever it takes for the sake of repentance; conversion; healing; the restoration of a relationship.

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Think of what Jesus did the day he entered the Temple in Jerusalem.

He saw the greedy practices of the money changers. So, he grabbed a whip, lashed it at them and turned their tables over.

How could Jesus turn tables over and still love the people standing behind them?

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He had an agape love for them. 

In that moment, his love for them was neither affectionate, nor warm and fuzzy. He loathed the corrupt practices they were involved in; those moneychangers were profiting off of their religion, selling pigeons to pilgrims. 

Jesus pointed out their sinful behavior so that they might repent and restore their relationship with God and their neighbor.

As we heard in our first reading, “You may have to reprove your fellow citizen, but take no revenge and cherish no grudge.”

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The moneychangers weren’t much different from the building contractors in Syria and Turkey, who looked for ways to make an extra buck, even at another person’s expense.

Still, Jesus “loved” them, prayed for them, and wanted them to repent, because he always held room in his heart for those who did.

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This is the final level of Christianity:

Love your enemies. Pray for those who persecute you. Desire only their good. Keep room for them in your heart.

Then you will be, “perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect.”

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“Get behind me.” Why this command of Jesus can be so hard.

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Gospel: Mark 8: 27-33

Jesus and his disciples set out
for the villages of Caesarea Philippi.
Along the way he asked his disciples,
“Who do people say that I am?”
They said in reply,
“John the Baptist, others Elijah,
still others one of the prophets.”
And he asked them,
“But who do you say that I am?”
Peter said to him in reply,
“You are the Christ.”
 
Then he warned them not to tell anyone about him.

He began to teach them
that the Son of Man must suffer greatly
and be rejected by the elders, the chief priests, and the scribes,
and be killed, and rise after three days.
He spoke this openly.
Then Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him.
At this he turned around and, looking at his disciples,
rebuked Peter and said, “Get behind me, Satan.
You are thinking not as God does, but as human beings do.” 

The Gospel of the Lord.

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In this tiny Gospel passage, Peter experiences the highest high … and the lowest low.

One moment he boldly proclaims that Jesus is the “Christ.”

The next, Jesus turns around and calls him, “Satan.”

Why such a dramatic change?

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Peter’s confession of faith stirred a desire in Jesus to share more of his divine plan with his disciples. He is not the political savior that the disciples secretly hoped he’d be. Rather, “the Son of Man must suffer greatly… and be killed,” he tells them.

Peter’s dreams of glory are being shattered right in front of him. He has already left his home, his family, and his job in order to follow Jesus. And now it seems it’s all ending in death.

The fame, the power, and the prestige were a pipe dream. Dumbfounded, Peter says to Jesus, “That cannot be!”

In trying to prevent God’s divine will from unfolding, Peter becomes like Satan – an obstacle; a stumbling block.

So, Jesus corrects Peter, telling him to, “get behind” him. This gesture of standing behind Jesus implies that, even when Peter doesn’t understand, he must learn how to follow.

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At times we all shriek from accepting God’s will. We protest. Or stand in the way.

A malignant diagnosis, a closed door, a winding path we never thought we’d walk may, in fact, be where the Lord is leading us… but like Peter we don’t always understand… and we certainly don’t want to accept it.

What Peter will learn after the resurrection is something we all must – that God’s path, although difficult at times, leads to life in abundance. Think of the empty tomb.

Or that great prophecy from Isaiah: “I will lead the blind on their journey. By paths unknown I will guide them. I will turn darkness into light before them and make crooked ways straight.”

The challenge is learning how to be like Peter, how to “get behind” Jesus and follow him.

What might that look like for me today?

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What makes this healing unique?

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Gospel: Mark 8: 22-26

When Jesus and his disciples arrived at Bethsaida,
people brought to him a blind man and begged Jesus to touch him.
He took the blind man by the hand and led him outside the village.
Putting spittle on his eyes he laid his hands on the man and asked,
“Do you see anything?”
Looking up the man replied, “I see people looking like trees and walking.”
Then he laid hands on the man’s eyes a second time and he saw clearly;
his sight was restored and he could see everything distinctly.
Then he sent him home and said, “Do not even go into the village.”

The Gospel of the Lord.

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This is the only miracle in all of the Gospels that takes place in stages

Usually, Jesus speaks and something happens – a storm is calmed, a demon is cast out, a person is raised from the dead. Elsewhere, a woman touches the tassel of his cloak and her flow of blood dries up.

Not today.

This man is healed in stages … and several, painstaking ones at that.

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Why is his healing not immediate? 

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It isn’t because Jesus is having an off day… not because he lacks the power to heal… not because he’s trying to torment the man.

Perhaps it’s this man’s lack of faith that slows the momentum.

The Gospel tells us that it was his friends who brought him to Jesus; meaning, the Lord was otherwise unknown to him.

Even after Jesus takes him by the hand, nothing happens. (In other cases, anyone who simply touches Jesus in faith is healed).

Then these two proceed on a private journey, leading them all the way out of town. In doing so, Jesus fulfills that great prophecy of Isaiah in such a literal way: “I will lead the blind on their journey; by paths unknown I will guide them.”

When they finally stop, Jesus spits on the man’s eyes, then presses his calloused carpenter’s hands onto the man’s eyeballs! Even so, it took another round of spittle and touch to finish the job.

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So, what’s the point?

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Imagine how often God must try breaking into our world, but a lack of faith, or an unwillingness to change, slows the momentum. This doesn’t mean that God ever stops trying.

But the stronger our faith – and the more we surrender – the faster we get what we need; the quicker we “see.”

Lord, give us eyes of faith.

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