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Gospel: Luke 14: 25-33
Great crowds were traveling with Jesus,
and he turned and addressed them,
“If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother,
wife and children, brothers and sisters,
and even his own life,
he cannot be my disciple.
Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after me
cannot be my disciple.
Which of you wishing to construct a tower
does not first sit down and calculate the cost
to see if there is enough for its completion?
Otherwise, after laying the foundation
and finding himself unable to finish the work
the onlookers should laugh at him and say,
‘This one began to build but did not have the resources to finish.’
Or what king marching into battle would not first sit down
and decide whether with ten thousand troops
he can successfully oppose another king
advancing upon him with twenty thousand troops?
But if not, while he is still far away,
he will send a delegation to ask for peace terms.
In the same way,
everyone of you who does not renounce all his possessions
cannot be my disciple.”
The Gospel of the Lord.
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“If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple.”
Even when we put this Gospel into the correct context, it’s difficult to live.
In ancient Jewish culture, this verb “hate” meant to “choose” one thing over another. If we are to be Jesus’ disciple, then we must choose God over our family, our friends, even our own life.
One way I try living out this command is by following a simple formula: 1, 2, 3.
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Put God first. Others second. Myself third.
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For me, that means beginning my day with at least an hour of prayer.
Then I come here to church and celebrate Mass – both with you and for you.
It’s how I put God first.
The rest of the day is spent in the office, at the hospital, in parishioner’s homes, meetings, or wherever else ministry takes me. I put all of you second.
By day’s end, I take an hour or so for myself.
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How might you apply that formula – 1, 2, 3 – to your own life?
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Put God first.
Someone else second – a spouse, a child, a friend in need.
And yourself third.
Mysteriously, doing so leads to life in abundance.
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