Think before you speak.

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Gospel: Luke 6:39-45

Jesus told his disciples a parable,
“Can a blind person guide a blind person?
Will not both fall into a pit?
No disciple is superior to the teacher;
but when fully trained,
every disciple will be like his teacher.
Why do you notice the splinter in your brother’s eye,
but do not perceive the wooden beam in your own?
How can you say to your brother,
‘Brother, let me remove that splinter in your eye,’
when you do not even notice the wooden beam in your own eye?
You hypocrite!  Remove the wooden beam from your eye first;
then you will see clearly
to remove the splinter in your brother’s eye.

“A good tree does not bear rotten fruit,
nor does a rotten tree bear good fruit.
For every tree is known by its own fruit.
For people do not pick figs from thornbushes,
nor do they gather grapes from brambles.
A good person out of the store of goodness in his heart produces good,
but an evil person out of a store of evil produces evil;
for from the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks.”

The Gospel of the Lord.

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Four monks took a vow of silence.

One day, while they were walking together down a dusty road, one monk stubbed his toe on a rock and cried out, “OUCH!”

A second monk turned to him and said, “You fool! You just broke your vow of silence!”

A third monk turned to him and said, “Now you’re the fool! You just broke your vow of silence by telling him that he broke his!”

The fourth monk stopped, smiled, and said aloud, “I’m the only one who didn’t.”

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Jesus uses the same type of humor in today’s Gospel by poking fun at our pride. “Why do you notice the splinter in your brother’s eye, but do not perceive the wooden beam in your own?” he says.

Sight is a curious thing. 

Eyes allow us to appreciate the beauty of God’s creation – the glow of sunrise, the twinkle of the stars at night, the blue of water, the face of our beloved. But it can also be misused to judge and criticize the imperfections of other people without noticing our own.

This is the irony of the eye. 

It cannot see itself. Nor can it look inward. Eyes can only look outward, allowing us to see one of two possibilities: beauty or imperfection. 

What do you see?

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No one is perfect.

“All have sinned and have fallen short of the glory of God,” Saint Paul says. Meaning, sometimes it is right and necessary to correct a friend, a neighbor, or a colleague who has done wrong.

But before criticizing someone else, the Lord commands us to take a hard look within, making sure that we are not guilty of the same offense – or a greater one – lest we be hypocrites.

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The Gospels provide us with great examples of hypocrisy. Consider the woman caught in adultery. She was guilty of one obvious and serious sin.

Meanwhile, her accusers who dragged her outside of someone’s home, laying her at the feet of Jesus, were guilty of at least two sins. 

First, hypocrisy. These brutish men bore stones in their hands, poised to stone this woman to death, while they themselves were sinners.

Secondly, they might’ve been guilty of the very same offense. Remember when Jesus kneels down and begins doodling in the sand. Some say he was writing an account of these men’s sins.

Perhaps some of them also committed adultery with this woman in their hearts, which is why Jesus says, “Let the one among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.”

One by one, each drops his stone and walks away frustrated.

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It’s a fascinating truth, but we can give a thousand excuses why we made a particular mistake – I was weak; tired; lonely; stressed; frustrated; at wit’s end!

But we can fail to extend that same charity towards others.

When we make a mistake, we focus on the reason why. But when it’s someone else, we dwell on the offense.

This does not mean that we should be silent in the face of sin. But just as you must be gentle when touching the human eye, so be gentle when correcting the faults of another. 

Words wield power.

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Growing up, I was taught if someone insulted me, I was not to resort to hitting them. Instead, I should say, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.”

We all know that isn’t true.

A hard blow from a stick can make our body ache for days, even weeks. But the body heals. A well targeted insult – or even fraternal correction done improperly – can hurt for years.

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What are some of the splinters we notice in our neighbor’s eye?

And what about the wooden beam in our own?

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Think of those four monks. 

Although they failed to keep their vow of silence perfectly, they remind us, if you can’t say something nice, it’s better not to say anything at all.

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In the end, there are two kinds of people.

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Gospel: Mark 9: 41-50

Jesus said to his disciples:
“”Anyone who gives you a cup of water to drink
because you belong to Christ,
amen, I say to you, will surely not lose his reward.

“”Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin,   
it would be better for him if a great millstone
were put around his neck
and he were thrown into the sea.
If your hand causes you to sin, cut it off.
It is better for you to enter into life maimed   
than with two hands to go into Gehenna,
into the unquenchable fire.
And if your foot causes you to sin, cut it off.
It is better for you to enter into life crippled   
than with two feet to be thrown into Gehenna.
And if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out.
Better for you to enter into the Kingdom of God with one eye
than with two eyes to be thrown into Gehenna,
where their worm does not die, and the fire is not quenched. 

“”Everyone will be salted with fire.
Salt is good, but if salt becomes insipid,
with what will you restore its flavor?
Keep salt in yourselves and you will have peace with one another.””

The Gospel of the Lord.

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On the topic of heaven and hell, C.S. Lewis once wrote: “There are only two kinds of people in the end: those who say to God, ‘Thy will be done,’ and those to whom God says, in the end, ‘Thy will be done.’ All that are in hell, choose it.”

The Church has never stated with any certainty that anyone is, in fact, in hell – or ever will be. But it must remain an option if we are free; freedom implies a choice of at least two options.

In this case, life with or life without God. Our choice.

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In today’s Gospel, Jesus gives stern instructions on how to orient ourselves towards God. “If your hand causes you to sin,” he says, “cut it off.”

Clearly, the Lord is being metaphorical. God would never condone self-harm. What Jesus is saying is that we must uproot all temptations from our lives, even those that are as deeply rooted as the limbs of our body.

In my own spiritual journey, I’ve found the easiest way to rid myself of sin – if there is any easy way – is not to focus on conquering a particular sin (while letting other sins go unchecked).

Rather, to spend time with Jesus.

In the church, in my chapel at home, reading his Word, sharing my heart with Him, praising him in song, praying in community, celebrating the Sacraments, and encountering Him in my neighbor.

Just as two friends or spouses slowly become “one flesh,” the more time we spend with Christ, the more we become like Him. Since no sin is appealing to the Lord, sin slowly fades away in us.

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“There are only two kinds of people in the end: those who say to God, ‘Thy will be done,’ and those to whom God says, in the end, ‘Thy will be done.’”

May Jesus grant us all the grace we need to follow the path of surrender, so that we may love Him the way he has loved us.

Then, we shall become not two, but “one flesh,” which no one and no thing can separate.

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A word on jealousy.

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Gospel: Mark 9:38-40

John said to Jesus,
“Teacher, we saw someone driving out demons in your name,
and we tried to prevent him because he does not follow us.”
Jesus replied, “Do not prevent him.
There is no one who performs a mighty deed in my name
who can at the same time speak ill of me.
For whoever is not against us is for us.”

The Gospel of the Lord.

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One of the tortures of jealousy is the fact that it can never turn its eye away from the thing that pains it.

Such is the case in today’s Gospel.

John is jealous. An anonymous exorcist has crept into his territory. Christ gave him and the other Apostles the authority to cast out demons. But now it seems that power is spreading beyond the Apostles. 

“Teacher, we saw someone driving out demons in your name, and we tried to prevent him because he does not follow us.”

Notice, John says, “he does not follow us,” as opposed to, “he does not follow you.”

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We don’t know who this person is, perhaps a listener among the crowds who once heard Jesus preach. Perhaps someone who was previously healed by the Lord. Someone who touched the tassel of his cloak.

However it happened, faith made its way into this person’s heart and now they have a good deed to prove it.

The Apostles should rejoice! Yet they’re jealous.

“Do not prevent him,” Jesus says.

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How often do you think the Lord would repeat this command if he walked into a church, an office, or a circle of friends?

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Like the Apostles, we can all succumb to jealousy, to being territorial, to claiming that a particular role is “mine,” or “ours” without being open to new people.

But Christ is inclusive. “Do not prevent them,” he says.

All are welcome in his circle.

All should be welcome in ours, too.

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